Love in a relationship! (Guest post by Ankit Kumar)

Welcome to BookLysis. Today I am sharing blog post by one of team members of this blog and a guest author Mr. Ankit Kumar:

Love in a relationship!

- Ankit Kumar Malode

What do you think of love? Is it two sided always?

Well, for start I must tell you every person has its own definition. We are reading writers from so much time writing on love and every one of them has their own thoughts to describe love, I have mine. Love is nothing but a feeling of togetherness, a feeling of trust, a feeling we all crave for. I just gave you the answer of my first question, now about second question.

Is love two sided always? There are many possibilities that you love someone and they don’t love you back but not always. Now getting back to my definition if you love someone you must want to be with him/her, you trust him/her and you can do anything to make that person happy. But if that person doesn’t love you back that means either they don’t want to be with you or they don’t trust you.

Now, apart from these two forms of love we have another form which got very common in recent time, it’s called 'Friend zone'. The thing about friend zone is they love each other but don’t want to be together, although they are together. Confused? Well everybody is, apart from the person who friend zoned. This is the only relationship in the world which never lasts. There is a stage in life when we think of a person to stay with us in every situation whether its good or bad, we think of a person to take care of us because of our busy schedule and moreover a person to love in a way no one else can. Okay I’m talking about boyfriend and girlfriend; every boy eventually falls for a girl and every girl for a boy. 

Let’s suppose a person escaped friend zone somehow, now he has love of his life but does this love worth it. They are in a relationship which is not stable maybe it will in future, but they have to go through its consequences. Consequences which tests them on the basis of trust. Maybe they have fight, maybe they have different opinion on something but the only thing which makes this relation work is love.

There are fights in every relationship and its healthy because it shows how much other person loves you, how much he/she cares for you. But if you have someone special in your life you know that whatever happens this person never going to leave me, you have someone to talk to, you have someone to share your problems which you can’t share with your family.

Relationships are important because they keep your faith in love, that special person in your life can make your life even more beautiful.

Love has no types all relations have love and they all meant same, togetherness, care, happiness and trust.

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Read more about relations in Ankit Kumar's upcoming book 'Dreamy Hearts'.

Till then read this beautiful journey which changed a boy’s life in his book 'A Trip To Maharashtra'.

NOTE: This post is written by our guest author Mr. Ankit Kumar. He would love to know your thoughts on this topic in the comment box. You can suggest him any social topic to write on by dropping a mail at ankitk090@gmail.com.

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Happy Birthday to the best sister in the world.

Hello readers,

I know that you are missing my blog posts now-a-days. Actually, I am busy these days, that’s the reason I am finding difficult to post blog posts; otherwise I have so much to talk to you and speak about several topics! I could not share even a good news with you… Yes! Good News! Wait… I tell you… I got a job… Yes! I work as an assistant English teacher in Abhinav Vidya Mandir Primary School Rondha (Salekasa). No, I won’t bore you now. Let me come to the reason why I am posting this blogpost.

Did you notice today’s date? It’s 13^th August 2017. I know that you do know the date… then? What’s new? What’s important today? Oh! You too forgot? Okay! Let me remind you… It’s 13^th August- the 26^th birthday of my sister. Actually, this post is not for you but for my sister. I don’t know whether she browses my website or not but if she does then it’s for you my sister… And if she doesn’t know about my blogging activities; then this blogpost is my little effort to let her, my friends and my fellow readers know that this unlucky brother has not forgotten his dearest sister even today, after around six years. Our relation is not made for forgetting. I don’t make relations which can be forgotten so easily. Even today, my sister’s place is reserved there somewhere in a special corner of her rejected brother’s heart. My sister’s reserved place cannot be replaced by anyone inside my heart. She is one of the most special persons in my life. My sister and her memories are most beautiful gifts of god to me.

Recently we Indians have celebrated ‘Rakshabandhan’ one of the auspicious festival to strengthen the bond between brother and sister. I pray for my sister every day. But wrist of my hand is still empty without her. Everyone asks me the reason behind my sacrifice of celebrating Rakshabandhan. But what do I tell them? Should I tell them that my sister does not send me a Rakhi or even greet me on any occasion? No! How can I say that? Who knows my sister too might remember my name as someone had (still do) call her a sister… I will celebrate Rakshabandhan only when I will receive a call for greeting or a Rakhi from my lovely sister.

Today is my sister’s birthday. I don’t know her personal contact number but I have to admit that I know the landline number of my sister’s mom and dad. Now you may call me a coward but I didn’t try to speak just because I don’t wish to bother my sister or her family. I don’t want to be a reason of her sadness. But I do give a miss call as a symbol of my wish and prayers for my sister’s happy and long life. I promise myself that I will keep aside my cowardness and I would try to hold the ring until someone pick up the phone, who knows my sister herself would be on line from the other end; but I can’t gather courage to pick up the phone and wait until the bell rings after dialing her telephone number. Ultimate reason of my cowardness is I just don’t wish to bother my sister or her family. Today, again I am thinking to greet her or send my wishes to my sister through her parents, but I am worried of negative impact after my only attempt for positive effect. My destiny never supports what I meant to do and it does the contrast.

In last six years from the day I met my sister last time (I wish, I could call that meeting as ‘previous’), there is not passed a single day, when I didn’t miss her. I remember and pray for my sister every day.

Lastly, I just hope that my dear sister might read this blog post. I miss my sister… If she is reading this… I am wishing for just a single call, I just want to pick up my phone and say you ‘Happy Birthday sister’. I just want to buy or make a birthday greeting card and send that to your postal address. I just want to wish you Happy Birthday. I just want to pray the Allah- the only almighty to keep my sister healthy and wealthy. May the almighty bless my sister a very happy and long life.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SISTER

Wish You A Very Happy Birthday

-Rajesh D. Hajare

(a brother)

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